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Hal Davis's avatar

"a tighter squeezing of the hands as we slip off the surface of the earth." Thank you for sharing the link.

“Everything we do is music, and everywhere is the best seat.” John Cage

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Laurie Stone's avatar

What a fabulous quote from John!!

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Hal Davis's avatar

I had misremembered it as "Everyone has the best seat."

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V. Penelope Pelizzon's avatar

I love both Anne Carson and Laurie Sloan.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

I love you, dearest . . . and autocorrect thinks my name is "Sloan." :)

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Katie Riegel's avatar

“. I’ve become less interested in the subjectivity of evaluation—both giving it and receiving it.” This! Brilliant.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

You, too? It's an interesting move from point A to pint B . . . nothing intentionally, something you notice.

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Katie Riegel's avatar

Absolutely. I run online workshops and spend my time writing responses to writing that describe what the piece is doing. It’s about seeing the poem or cnf and engaging with it, rather than criticizing it. So few of us ever really feel _seen_.

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Catherine Texier's avatar

Love this! What Anne Carson writes and what you write (so sorry she has Parkinson's. I love her)

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Laurie Stone's avatar

I love her as well, and thanks, dear C! xxL

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Rona Maynard's avatar

What fun to see you stir up the molecules.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Thanks, love.

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Jane Stephens Rosenthal Cooke's avatar

Wow Laurie I just found your Substack. What a beautiful essay to find today. Though we are in different seasons of life I related to so much you share here. I love all the winding observations. All the questions. Can you trust someone who says yes they were good in their life. Struck me so hard. The voicemails you love still on your phone. The mariachi music. So rich. All of it.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Thanks so much, dear Jane. I'm delighted to have you as a reader. --Laurie

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Jerry Stahl's avatar

The black doorway is always there….

Exactly.

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Abigail Gampel's avatar

as if you're catching in language the seeds of the dandelion as we become them on a wind. beautiful Stone- seeing you on the curb puts me there too- whether your'e there or not. my morning read. love you.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Hi Abby! I see you, too. xxL

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Sue Sutherland-Wood's avatar

I see that Black Door too ...

Arresting, well written piece.

And, as usual, I always appreciate what you and Richard have to say xo

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Thanks so much!

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TY111's avatar

please continue to listen to Susan

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Laurie Stone's avatar

I will! Lynz will be a new section of each post. xxL

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Grain_of_sand's avatar

I swear I have been waiting for someone to talk about Anne Carson, thank you so much. Her work stands as testament to why reading literature holistically is vital.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Yes, brilliant, happy our minds crossed. xxL

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Grain_of_sand's avatar

For the second time funny enough!

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Kevin Sessums's avatar

I loved this so much.. Thank you ..

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Oh sweetness, I'm so glad. xxL

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Cindy Jennings's avatar

Such a question, this: "Did I do a reasonable job in my life? I’m not sure."

I paused and then wondered how my answer might differ if I revised the question to ask about the job I've done 'with' my life rather than 'in' my life. Stirring up the ambiguity and moving attention to the qualitative.

"Would you trust a person who readily said yes?" Well, no.

Thank you for bringing Spalding Gray into this, too. The citation brought me pleasure!

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Hi Cindy! xxL

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M.E. Proctor's avatar

I will put this on my wall, to look at it each time I sit down to write: "it will be impossible for the writing to be memory. It has never happened before." It expresses so perfectly the joy I feel when I hit my keyboard: something will come that did not exist before ... Thank you!

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Laurie Stone's avatar

I feel exactly the same way. xxL

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Jan Elisabeth's avatar

I adore Anne Carson and had no idea she has Parkinson's -- but love her approach -- "she wants to remain in love with the way her mind casts around from moment to moment, attracted by forms of delight and producing delight for us with her associations." And your friend Susan (how wonderful to look like a lynx) is right -- links to other work are so welcome.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Who knew? She was suggesting it would add some luster to my "pitch" for support. It felt a bit like self-promotion, but hey. xxL

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Jan Elisabeth's avatar

I think your pitch is already great -- factual and not arm-twisty. It's just interesting to see even more of your work xx

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Thanks for the feedback. It's useful. I am going to offer a link with each new post. xxL

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Jon Etherton's avatar

Thank you for this, the riff on Cy Twombly, the link, and the hope of an encounter for a cookie on one of my very infrequent trips to NYC.

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Laurie Stone's avatar

Thanks, Jon . . . we're in Hudson, not NYC, although I did do the cookie thing in Washington Square Park one day.

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Jon Etherton's avatar

Thank you. I will adjust my hope.

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